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Common Cents for Couples: How to Manage Money Together February 7, 2023

Finance may not be the most romantic conversation topic, but it’s inarguably an important one. A 2021 Fidelity Investments Couples & Money Study found that one in five couples cite money as their greatest relationship challenge and 44% of partners admit to arguing about money occasionally. Building up emergency savings, paying off debt, and saving for milestone events (like college or a new home) topped the list of concerns keeping partners awake at night.

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Skip the candy; talk candidly

If you want to be successful in managing your money, you must find comfort in talking first. Being transparent about your earnings, debt, and money philosophies may feel uncomfortable, but full disclosure is critical when it comes to making joint financial decisions like whether you want to merge finances or how you want to tackle bills. Make check-ins a regular conversation (versus a one-time event) so that when financial hurdles happen, you’ll already have a baseline sense of how your partner will want to move forward.

Create joint financial goals

What do you want to achieve as a couple? Do you need to create an emergency fund or start saving for a home purchase? Do you need to budget for an upcoming vacation or pay off a high interest credit card this year? Narrow down the primary financial priorities you can tackle in tandem, and then decide how you want those goals to be reflected: as a shared document you periodically refer to? Everyone has their own preferences; the importance here is finding common ground when it comes to money milestones.

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Organize accounts

If your money philosophies are aligned and you generally see eye-to-eye, congratulations! Who spends what is half the battle. On the other hand, if fully merging finances is a pain point, consider keeping three accounts: one for you, one for your partner, and one for joint spending. Decide what—beyond just your house payment and utility bills—falls under the shared category.

Track your spending and savings

Once your accounts are organized accordingly, there are several options for syncing up finances. Check with your financial institution to see what tools they have available. Nymeo offers free access for members to SavvyMoney in online banking.

Other programs include:
• Mint: tracks income, savings goals, and your credit score, and also syncs with your credit cards and checking/savings accounts.
• Honeydue: Ideal for couples who appreciate the ability to chat about bills and transactions within the app (versus later at the dinner table).
• Goodbudget: A good option for curbing spending. Acts as an “envelope system” in which you can only spend the amount that’s in each designated envelope (you can have up to 20 envelopes before switching to the paid version).

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Planning for Your Future

Need a little guidance when it comes to planning your finances or creating a realistic household budget? Seek the advice of experts such as credit counselors. Nymeo has a partnership with GreenPath Financial Wellness. They can help you get a head start on budgeting and money management.

This article is shared by our partners at GreenPath Financial Wellness, a trusted national non-profit.

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